|You Should Be A Cancer|
While I am not sure about most of what it says about me, I did find it amusing that the quiz is to find out what sign I should be. I took that to mean that if I were born a cancer, which I was, then I could take this test and find out that I am really a scorpio.
I took the test and found out that I am and should be a cancer.
I think it is funny because when I read other signs personality traits I can find some that suit me as well. I will say that, all in all, I do think that the cancer sign suits me best.
The first part of the description fits me perfectly. However, the part about depending on my friends for emotional support isn’t really me. I am sorry to say I have learned in my life to not depend on anyone for emotional support. I hide all my feelings inside and work it out by myself. It is hard for me to make friends because of my bottling everything up. The only person that I may let see this vulneralbe side of me is my husband. However, it is not in his personality to be the kind of person you lean on. He doesn’t like to hear about problems or help me sort things out.
I don’t have anyone to tell my dreams to or a shoulder to cry on. I am alone this way. It doesn’t mean my husband is a bad husband. My ex was the same. Men don’t like to talk about problems rather they like to just fix them or ignore them. Women, in general, like to talk problems out working out the best solution because I know I can’t just walk away and ignore it. I have to fix everything before I sleep well at night.
What am I babbling about? I am a very open person but I don’t have any real friends. I am a loner. I just rely on me. It is not a good way to live your life and I want to change this part of my personality. I want to learn to rely on others. I want to learn how to be more open to others as in opening myself up to them even if it means they may hurt me.
Life is too short to live in a shell.
What do you think about all this sign stuff? Is it hogwash or is there some validity to it?